You CAN’T Control “Reality” Until You Can Control PEOPLE

The video explores the concept of controlling one's reality by understanding and influencing how we perceive and interact with others. The speaker, Nero, emphasizes the interconnectedness of all individuals, drawing on principles of nonduality and quantum mechanics. He argues that our perception of others shapes their behavior towards us, urging viewers to detach from fixed beliefs about people and alter internal dialogues and imaginations to manifest desired interactions. By recognizing the vibratory connection between mind and reality, individuals can consciously influence their experiences and relationships, ultimately reshaping their reality.

• Nonduality is a higher understanding of the interconnectedness between you and your reality, emphasizing that separation is an illusion within the third-dimensional realm.
• The concept of nonduality suggests that, on a quantum mechanical level, individuals are one with each other and with their reality.
• The illusion of separation is a construct of the third-dimensional realm, where everything is perceived as split into dualities such as positive/negative, masculine/feminine, and rich/poor.
• The understanding of nonduality is crucial for realizing the oneness with everyone and everything, which is essential for altering interactions and perceptions in reality.

"You are one with everybody, and when I say that, I really don't say that as some statement to make you feel good. I mean down to a quantum mechanical level."

• This quote emphasizes the scientific basis of nonduality, suggesting that on a fundamental level, all individuals are interconnected.

"The idea that we are separate individuals, that I'm a separate person, only exists within our third-dimensional realm."

• The perceived separation between individuals is an illusion created by the third-dimensional realm, highlighting the illusory nature of reality.

"The universe is entirely mental, and this is why it's important for you to truly understand that you are one with everybody."

• The mental nature of the universe underscores the importance of recognizing oneness with others, which is key to altering perceptions and interactions.

• Reality is not fixed or permanent; it is in constant motion and vibration, challenging the conventional understanding of what is "real."
• The perception of reality is limited by the senses, particularly eyesight, which only perceives a small fraction of reality through a process called refraction.
• The illusion of separation is reinforced by external appearances, but internally, all beings share the same essence, akin to water in differently colored bottles.

"If you want to take a very powerful microscope and zoom it in onto a whiteboard like this, you would see that the particles within it are moving. Everything is in constant motion."

• This quote illustrates the dynamic and ever-changing nature of reality, challenging the notion of fixedness.

"Visually, this is a red bottle, this is a black bottle, and this is a blue bottle, but within they all have the same water despite their outside appearances."

• The metaphor of water bottles highlights the shared essence of all beings, despite external differences, reinforcing the concept of nonduality.

• The understanding of nonduality and interconnectedness is supported by spiritual teachings and universal laws, such as the Hermetic principles.
• The Hermetic principles, given by an interdimensional entity, offer insights into the nature of reality and the interconnectedness of all things.
• The teachings of figures like Jesus in the Gospel of Thomas emphasize the internal and external unity of all beings, aligning with the concept of nonduality.

"It's like what Jesus says in the Gospel of Thomas when he's talking about the Kingdom of Heaven. He says the Kingdom of Heaven is inside and outside of you."

• This quote connects spiritual teachings to the concept of nonduality, emphasizing the internal and external unity of all beings.

"When you see the god in other people, the God within them will look back at you."

• Recognizing the divine essence in others reflects one's own divinity, fostering a deeper understanding of interconnectedness.

• The universe is fundamentally mental, and understanding this mental nature is key to recognizing the interconnectedness of reality.
• Altering one's mental frequency allows for a deeper perception of the truth and interconnectedness of reality, transcending the illusion of separation.
• The mental nature of the universe extends to the relationship between mind and reality, where thoughts and perceptions shape one's experience.

"The universe is entirely mental, and this is why it's important for you to truly understand that you are one with everybody."

• This quote underscores the mental nature of the universe, highlighting the importance of recognizing oneness with others.

"When you're on that frequency, you begin to start seeing the truth, the true interconnectedness of reality."

• Achieving a higher mental frequency allows for a deeper understanding of the interconnectedness of all things, transcending the illusion of separation.

• The speaker emphasizes the inseparable connection between the mind and reality, suggesting that one's mental state directly influences their external world.
• Individuals who are attuned to higher frequencies can perceive and manipulate this connection to manifest their desires.
• Many people remain unaware of this connection, living in a world of reflections without understanding their influence over their reality.

"There is no separation between the mind and reality; in fact, there's an invisible string that connects your mind and your reality together."

• This quote highlights the fundamental idea that the mind and reality are interconnected, suggesting that one's thoughts and mental state can shape their external experiences.

• Manifestation is described as an ongoing, subconscious process rather than a deliberate act.
• The speaker defines manifestation as an internal shift where one is no longer emotionally dependent on seeing reality change.
• Manifestation is the physical expression of mental activities, encompassing both audio (inner dialogue) and visual (imagination) aspects.

"Manifestation is internally shifting to a degree to which you're no longer emotionally dependent upon seeing reality change."

• This definition underscores the internal nature of manifestation, focusing on emotional independence from external changes as a key aspect.

"Manifestation can be seen as the physical expression of your mental activities in the same way you print something; it is the outward printing of whatever is going on within your mind."

• The quote explains manifestation as a natural, continuous process akin to printing thoughts into reality, emphasizing its unconscious nature.

• The speaker argues that people do not struggle to manifest; rather, they struggle to direct their mental activities towards desired outcomes.
• Believing in a struggle to manifest creates a self-imposed limitation, reinforcing the perceived difficulty.

"The issue isn't that you're struggling to manifest; the issue is you're struggling to redirect your mental activities to physically express what it is that you want."

• This statement clarifies that the real challenge lies in aligning mental focus with desired outcomes, not in the act of manifestation itself.

"The moment you enter the Paradigm of 'I'm struggling to manifest,' you lock yourself into a box where now you're actually struggling to manifest."

• The quote highlights the self-fulfilling nature of believing in a struggle, suggesting that such beliefs create unnecessary barriers.

• Synchronicities are described as manifestations of mental activities rather than random coincidences.
• Recognizing these events as creations rather than synchronicities empowers individuals to acknowledge their role in shaping reality.

"What you call synchronicity ain't synchronicity; it's creation."

• This quote challenges the traditional view of synchronicities, framing them as deliberate creations stemming from one's mental focus.

• The speaker emphasizes that one's vibrational frequency determines their perception of reality.
• People can only perceive what resonates with their current frequency, limiting their awareness of other possibilities.

"You cannot perceive anything in reality that you're not the vibration of."

• This statement explains that perception is limited by one's vibrational alignment, suggesting that changes in frequency can expand awareness.

"More realities are hidden from you by yourself than any Central Intelligence Agency."

• The quote suggests that self-imposed limitations, rather than external forces, are the primary barriers to perceiving broader realities.

• Individuals present different versions of themselves to different people, creating societal masks based on vibrational alignment.
• Understanding these masks can lead to insights into altering behaviors and interactions with others.

"You're not who you are to your mom that you are to your dad that you are to your grandma that you are to your friend that you are to your coworker."

• This observation highlights the fluidity of identity and the varied personas individuals adopt in different contexts, influenced by vibrational interactions.

• Individuals wear different "masks" or personas depending on the social context and the people they interact with.
• The masks people show are influenced by the perceptions and expectations of others.
• The idea of masks exists both on a societal level and a metaphysical level, where vibrational energy plays a role.

"The mask that somebody shows you is the mask you've given them."

• This quote emphasizes that individuals project their expectations onto others, influencing the persona others present.

• Physical reality is preceded by vibrational reality; altering the vibrational perception can change physical manifestations.
• Changing one's perception of others can lead to experiencing a different version of them.

"Before anything can exist physically, it first must exist vibrationally."

• This highlights the importance of vibrational energy as a precursor to physical reality.

• The concept of parallel universes suggests infinite possibilities for how life can be experienced.
• The version of a person one experiences is influenced by the vibrational mask given to them.

"There's an infinite amount of masks that somebody could show you."

• This quote illustrates the limitless potential for different experiences of the same person based on vibrational interactions.

• Perception is crucial in shaping the reality one experiences; it leads to projection.
• The beliefs held in the subconscious mind about others influence the reality one encounters.

"Your perception will always lead to your projection."

• This underscores the direct relationship between how one perceives others and the reality that unfolds.

• Conviction and faith in how one perceives someone can alter the experience of that person in reality.
• The power of belief can transform interactions and relationships.

"Whatever you're convinced of someone to be is powerful enough to be the elixir of what Alters your experience of that person into your reality."

• This emphasizes the transformative power of conviction in shaping personal experiences.

• Individuals must take responsibility for their experiences with others, acknowledging their role in shaping those interactions.
• Unconscious biases and perceptions can lead to self-fulfilling prophecies in relationships.

"You are going to have to take extreme ownership on your experience of other people."

• This stresses the importance of personal accountability in the dynamics of human interactions.

• Stereotypes are societal masks that people unconsciously attribute to others, affecting their experiences.
• Recognizing and altering these masks can change the way one perceives and experiences different groups.

"We attribute these masks to people all the time and then without realizing that because we've given that masks from a point of vibration we then experience it physically."

• This highlights the impact of societal stereotypes on personal experiences.

• Rigid beliefs about others can solidify the masks they wear, limiting the potential for change.
• Flexibility in perception allows for more dynamic and varied experiences of individuals.

"The moment you decide that this is just the way somebody is you have glued that mask to their face."

• This illustrates how fixed perceptions can restrict the potential for experiencing different facets of a person.

• The idea of masks refers to the personas or identities that individuals assign to others, often unconsciously.
• Altering someone's mask involves changing the perception of them, which can influence their behavior.
• The focus is on creating the experience of the type of person desired rather than fixating on a specific individual.

"The true game of controlling people is your ability to take somebody's mask off, the one that you've assigned to them unconsciously by default, and give them the mask that you want to experience."

• Changing the perception of someone can significantly alter their behavior and interaction with you.

"Instead of seeking to manifest a special person, what you need to manifest is an experience of the type of person you want."

• Manifesting an experience with a type of person is more effective than fixating on a specific individual, as it aligns with the desired experience.

• Perception shapes the experience of relationships, influencing how individuals interact with others.
• Viewing someone negatively will create a negative experience with them, while a positive perception can enhance interactions.

"If you have the perception towards somebody to be a demon, the only thing you can experience with them is hell."

• Negative perceptions lead to negative experiences, reinforcing the importance of positive outlooks.

"If you perceive somebody to be an angel... you be willing to surpass every particular fixated belief and experience that you had of somebody."

• Positive perceptions can lead to more harmonious and fulfilling interactions.

• The process involves becoming aware of the experience of someone as just one version of them.
• Detachment from solidified identities allows for altering perceptions and experiences.

"Your experience of somebody is just that; it's an experience... you need to detach from the solidification of their identity."

• Recognizing the fluidity of identities enables the possibility of perceiving different versions of people.

"You must be willing to get past your ego's desire to decide somebody to be the way that they are."

• Overcoming ego-driven perceptions is crucial for altering experiences with others.

• Inner conversations and imagination play a crucial role in shaping perceptions and experiences.
• Altering internal dialogues to match desired realities can influence external interactions.

"The conversation that you have with somebody... should be resonant of your desired reality."

• Internal dialogues should reflect the desired outcomes to manifest them in reality.

"Imagination comes from the Latin word 'imaginari,' which means to picture oneself... you need to begin to mentally experience yourself with that person."

• Visualization and imagination are powerful tools for experiencing desired interactions with others.

• The belief in interconnectedness suggests that perceptions of others are reflections of oneself.
• Positive or negative perceptions of others impact one's own experiences and reality.

"If you hate to see someone win, you hate to see yourself win... they are you; they're just simply a different physical expression of you."

• Negative perceptions of others are projections of negative aspects of oneself.

"When I see somebody who's homeless, I don't see poverty there because if I begin to see poverty there, I'll see it within myself."

• Viewing others positively fosters a positive self-image and reality.

• The practical steps involve detaching from fixed identities and altering inner conversations.
• Visualization and imagination are used to create the desired experiences with others.

"The entire process can be simplified down into taking off an unwanted mask and putting on The Wanted mask."

• The process is about consciously changing perceptions to influence interactions.

"You need to imagine whichever person you want to alter their behavior in combination with the inner conversation alterations in a way that's reflective of your desired reality."

• Imagination and internal dialogue are key to manifesting desired changes in relationships.